16.6.10

Dear stranger, I'll love you more than you'll ever know!

I just cried when I saw this on www.Postsecret.com/


Frank Warren author of the site posted this: "I haven't heard from the person who mailed this postcard, but I have heard from many others who have felt lifted by this world-wide spontaneous act of kindness."
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He then posted photos of people offering hope:


Frank Warren also noted:
"Thank you for creating the "please don't jump" facebook group (http://www.facebook.com/pleasedonotjumpI am overwhelmed at the response and truly, deeply hope the author of the postcard is as well. Things have been rough for me, and even though the kind words are meant for another suffering soul, I have drawn strength from following these voices too... I wish there were more examples of this kind of love, hope, and support in our world."

PLEASE JOIN!
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Then Frank posted this email message from someone who read the post card:

"I read the Golden Gate Bridge postcard on PostSecret, visited the facebook page, and went to the bridge today [Sunday]. I have lived in San Francisco for 4 years and never once walked across the bridge. Today me and my roommate did for the first time because of this secret and I wanted to share with you my experience.

We walked about 3/4 across the bridge reading ribbons and messages along the way then decided to head back. On our way back I noticed a backpack against the bridge and thinking this was odd kept staring...soon noticing a person on the other side of the bridge. Me and my roommate stopped and stared over at this man sitting on the ledge of the bridge.

My roommate asked him if he was alright, which he replied "not really" but he stood up. She then asked him if he would come back on our side of the bridge. He climbed back over and we all just stood there awhile. He had a big scar down his neck and had also wet himself sometime sitting out on the ledge. I asked him his name and we introduced ourselves. My roommate asked him if she could call anyone for him and he replied no. He then put on his sweatshirt, grabbed his stuff, and walked away. We stood there watching him and the bridge police and security team pulled up and escorted this man into one of the cars.

I have no idea what is going to happen with this man, where he went, if he will try to jump or some other method again. All I know is today was my first day on the bridge, and because of postsecret and the support of all these individuals, we wanted to be a part of that support and through that we were able to be there for someone.

People do make a difference and even if the person who wrote the post secret has no idea of the effect that it has had, today it helped take someone off the Golden Gate Bridge."

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And I cried some more...
 
The best way I can express my feelings is through a song I wrote awhile ago for people I have known that committed suicide, those who have attempted and those I have never met this ones for you:
 
There's better days ahead
when your lying in your bed
the world slows to a crawl
you want to stop it all
but think before you fall
if I knew that you were hurting inside
why wont you confide in me?
I pray that you can make it
through the rain to see the rainbow
I pray for all those struggling
you are not alone
theres better days ahead
why wont the world slow down
shine light on the lost and make them found
one million every year
a cause that I hold dear
you are not alone
there's better days ahead
when your lying in your bed
the world slows to a crawl
you want to stop it all
but think before you fall

You can also check out another blog I wrote sometime ago on the issue: http://drea-heartoflife.blogspot.com/2010/01/so-i-recently-found-out-that-7th-grader.html

and one my friend wrote:



Thank you,
I didn't really know what to say but I felt I had to say something!

1-800-SUICIDE

Blogs I am currently following...

In no specific order...



  •  1000 Awesome Things is just a time-ticking countdown of 1000 awesome things. Launched June, 2008 and updated every weekday. Published as The Book of Awesome in April, 2010.


    • A photo blog with a photo a day from around the world.

    • Follows a vegabond attempting to cross every item off his "bucket list"
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    •  Started by 3 Canadians this is one of the first ever MP3 Blogs. Each week they post a new song for download and then take it off seven days later. The songs can be hit and miss but overall impressive.



    • A satirical look by teachers for teachers on Americas education system. Often funny headlines, frequently sad/ disturbing. Teachers say they enjoy it because it makes them feel better about how they are handling there class rooms.



    • One of the most popular websites and blogs was the vision of Frank Warren who asked people to anonymously send in there secrets on post cards. Since the beginning over 3 books have been published and he has toured around the world sharing his phenomenon with others. My personal favorite. It's updated every Sunday and I always check!




    • In her last semester of High School she decided to follow only the advice offered in Seventeen Magazine to show what it would look like if a person lived there life by a magazines advice. Often witty, satirical, funny and ridiculous the blog before you cchronicles this journey from a (yes biased) sociological perspective. Highly entertaining and addictive.

    12.6.10

    More, more, more
    The biggest and the best
    Latest, greatest, most famous
    Most for the least
    Price tag on world peace
    Faster, master, disaster
    Advertising blaster
    Stuff, fluff
    Bang for your buck
    New, shiny
    Always whiny
    Lies, Best buys
    Mega-malls
    Barbie dolls
    Shopping
    Multi-million dollar flopping
    Stock market rocking
    Most shocking
    Hi-tech
    What the heck
    Skateboard deck
    Car go zoom
    Computer boom
    Up, Down
    All around
    Lost and found
    Changing
    Moving Always schmoozing
    Wine, dine
    Fine, fine, fine
    Diamonds, gold
    Trying to fit the mold
    Hold the phone
    Texting drone
    All alone.